Overcoming the Stronghold of Abuse Today’s Devotional — October 8, 2023
“I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Marvelous are Your works, And that my soul knows very well.” —Psalm 139:14
We were created in the image of a loving God whose purpose is for us to have relationships based on mutual love and respect. In the Christian community, most pastors are not addressing the evil of abuse. It is a false concept that God expects us to stay in abusive relationships and marriages. Whether it is a husband, wife, parents, family member, or a friend, let them go!
God lovingly gave His Son, Jesus for us who created us from love and expects us to have loving hearts. Does God tolerate abuse? Read the story of David, Abigail, and Nabal in 1 Samuel chapter 25. When we pray for Divine Intervention, God will deliver us from the stronghold of abuse. It is our duty to God to not tolerate abuse in any form. We were not ransomed from sin to become victims of the satanic stronghold of abuse.
“For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline.” —2 Timothy 1:7
Individuals who are abused live in fear. The barrage of abuse weakens their mental and physical strength and the resolve to take care of oneself. Abuse places a person in the mental and emotional chains of discouragement and defeat. Their outlook declines into a state of hopelessness.
Most people who are in abusive relationships do not leave or leave and return because the journey of new beginnings usually requires one to fully depend on God. Human emotions tell them it is better to stay in an abusive relationship than to be alone or restart life on an unknown journey.
“The LORD himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.” —Deuteronomy 31:8
You cannot have God’s gifts of peace and joy nor maintain your relationship with Christ while living under the stronghold of abuse. This may sound harsh, but in Revelation 21, verse 8, Jesus tells us there will be no cowards in heaven. To serve God requires strong, unwavering faith and perseverance. Pray and ask God to reveal His perfect plan for you [and your children] to leave and begin a new life based on love.
God is waiting for every person to pray and ask for His help. God already has a way of escape. The prayer of God, help me, is one that always receives an immediate answer. Once God reveals the way to victory do not share His plan with anyone else. We never know who Satan will use to defeat your journey to freedom. Pray and remain silent. Use your faith to escape and God will take care of you!
If you do not reside with the abusive individual then establish healthy boundaries by severing the unhealthy relationship. The preference is to use silence. If you choose to have verbal or written communication to tell them why you are ending the relationship, it is a guarantee they will use the opportunity to speak hurtful words.
We are preparing for eternal life which requires steadfast faith and trust in God who always requires us to take a step of faith before He intervenes with a Giant Leap leading to victory. Be bold! Be courageous! the Lord God is on your side.
“You will keep him in perfect peace, Whose mind is stayed on You, Because he trusts in You. Trust in the Lord forever, For in Yah, the Lord, is everlasting strength. For He brings down those who dwell on high…” —Isaiah 26:1-3
Scripture: “The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face shine on you and be gracious to you; the Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace.” —Numbers 6:24-26
Prayer: God, we pray this intercessory prayer for those who are living under the stronghold of abuse. We ask You to give them strength and reveal the plan of escape to begin a new, peaceful life that includes Your overwhelming love and guidance. We pray for the healing of their fragile, broken hearts. We ask this prayer in the Name of Jesus, our Warrior God. Amen.
Think about your priorities. Do they reflect that you are preparing for Eternal Life?
Sadly, we are focusing on the earthly, ordinary things of life that distract us from preparing for the Day of the Lord. The antediluvians—inhabitants of Noah’s era were so preoccupied with their daily tasks and personal desires that they failed to acknowledge the warnings of an impending and great flood that would destroy the earth.
Because of their sinfulness, they could not possess the faith necessary to believe in Noah’s messages, resulting in a lack of desire to enter the ark.
“The earth also was corrupt before God, and the earth was filled with violence.” —Genesis 6:11
It is phenomenal that the condition of humanity described so many centuries ago is evident again in our world today. Not only are we repeating the same behaviors of those in Noah’s time, but advancements in technology have driven us into a frenzy. We already spend the majority of our free time looking at screens. With the development of AI [Artificial Intelligence] our interest is piqued.
Mentally, we suffer from the negative impacts of spending countless hours staring at screens to keep up with innovation. But the necessity to stay current has produce a life and death adverse effect—believers are suffering from the spiritual desensitization of Jesus’ Second Coming.
The pace of life is one of overwhelming busyness and is filled with numerous voices [secular and religious]. It is the ordinary routine life tasks that result in eating up our time, leaving us no time to worship God every day.
Our Priorities Determine Our Destiny
Busyness has us so mentally and physically fatigued that we do not have time to have a personal relationship with Christ. Or we have those who study the Bible but still live according to their desires because it’s easier to deviate from the truth then to consistently be forced to choose between right and wrong.
“Then Elijah approached all the people and said, ‘How long will you waver between two opinions? If the LORD is God, follow Him. But if Baal is God, follow him.’ But the people did not answer a word.” —1 Kings 18:21
But our spiritual dilemma requires us to take action and make a choice. Faith, surrender, obedience, prayer, and daily study of the Bible are the non-negotiable requisites for the Christian believer. God must be first!
The apostle Paul said, “I die daily to sin.” We fight a continuous internal battle waged by the desires of our carnal hearts. It is easier to think and do wrong than to live righteously. To remain in God’s will, we must pray the I surrender prayer every day.
The Scriptures define the humility and character that is required by God to receive eternal life. Many have redefined righteous living according to their mindsets and lifestyles. At the end of the day, we should reflect on our thoughts and actions, “Did I do all to the glory of God?”
Are we witnessing to others every day, face-to-face, or through social media? We are not saved by our works, but our works are evidence of our faithful obedience to God’s commands for the spiritual works of every believer.
“And behold, I am coming quickly, and My reward is with Me, to give to every one according to his work.” —Revelation 22:12
Either we will live our best life on this earth or in the New Heaven and New Earth. We must decide, will our earthly life reflect our priorities or God’s priorities? Each person determines their own destiny by whom they place their love and loyalty. Pleasing self is a form of idol worship.
Yet, Jesus created us as free moral agents. God will never force us to accept His will. But if we choose to follow our agendas then we should not deceive ourselves into thinking we will receive the reward of eternal life for living a self-seeking lifestyle on this earth.
We Require Divine Intervention to be Spiritually Transformed into Christ’s Likeness
“Can people change the color of their skin, or a leopard remove its spots? If they could then you that do nothing but evil could learn to do what is right.” —Jeremiah 13:23, Good News Translation
Although the trending worldviews proclaim that humans possess the powers of manifestation, self-healing, and mind control, we were created with limited abilities. We cannot change ourselves spiritually, mentally, or emotionally. Truthfully, we struggle with the behaviors that we can change. As creatures of habit, even when diagnosed with chronic illnesses, it usually takes a health crisis to initiate a change in an unhealthy lifestyle.
From our desire to be faithful and obedient, we invite the Holy Spirit into our lives to transform our minds and characters into the Righteousness of Christ—Sanctification. Spiritual growth and development are comparable to that of a baby maturing into an adult. It takes a lifetime of human effort and Divine Intervention to change the innate sinful heart into a righteous heart [mind] and character.
We must fully cooperate with Divinity to be changed into the likeness of Christ.
“For the flesh craves what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are opposed to each other, so that you do not do what you want.” —Galatians 5:17
Preparation for eternal life is not a last-minute decision. It is accomplished by putting God first. Praying every day for His will to be revealed followed by our surrender and obedience invites the Holy Spirit’s presence and power into our lives. Spiritual transformation and obedience to God is possible for every believer who is willing to live righteously!
Preparation not only requires us to have an intentional mindset of obedience and the wilful determination to go all the way with God, but we also place boundaries on the ordinary things of life that distract and prevent us from receiving our reward of eternal life.
Scripture: “To him who overcomes I will grant to sit with Me on My throne, as I also overcame and sat down with My Father on His throne.” —Revelation 3:21
Prayer: God, we are at a crossroads in our lives that requires us to make the decision to prioritize our desires and make the decision to devote ourselves totally to You. Today, we renew our covenant vow with You. Lord, we pray for the strength to put aside the ordinary things that prevent us from faithfully obeying Your Will. We ask this prayer in Jesus’ Holy Name, Amen.
Our Spiritual Journey—Becoming One with Christ Devotional Reading September 12, 2023
Most of us have the natural desire to travel with other people, or at least one other person. Still, many are adventurous and comfortable exploring this beautiful world alone. Even if we decide to forge ahead on a solo journey, the opportunity to interact with others is always available.
The believer’s spiritual journey requires both a solo effort and interaction with the church family for fellowship. What does it mean for the believer to travel alone and how do they receive spiritual support outside of attending church? The spiritual transformation of our hearts and the strength to stay on the Path of Righteousness only involve two participants, the believer and Christ. Yes, the other deities of the Triune Godhead [God and the Holy Spirit] are involved in every aspect of our spiritual transformation, but our daily walk is with Christ.
Because of Jesus’ sacrificial offering of Himself, He took the penalty of sin [the wages of sin is death] and offered every believer redemption from their sins. Coming to Jesus is not complicated, in love and faith, we believe that He died for us, we confess and repent of our sins, and immediately accepted into the royal family of Christ. “So they said, ‘Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved, you and your household’” (Acts 16:31).
Regardless of trending false doctrines, salvation is only available through Christ. The relationship between Christ and ourselves is built on love. We dedicate our lives to Christ and honor Him as our Savior and Heavenly Intercessor.
“Jesus answered, ‘I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me’” (John 14:6). Salvation is only available through Jesus Christ who died for the redemption of our sins.
“We love Him because He first loved us” (1 John 4:19). A heart-to-heart relationship with Christ is possible because we love Him.
Where did our love for Christ come from? God is the Origin of our love:
“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” —John 3:16
“And love consists in this: not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son as the atoning sacrifice for our sins.” —1 John 4:10
Sadly, many new converts do not know what happens next once they have accepted Christ as their personal Savior nor do they understand the concept of salvation.
“For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast.” —Ephesians 2:8-9
Grace is an attribute of God shown to undeserving human beings. We have received the opportunity to be saved from death which is the penalty for sinful disobedience to God. Because of grace, we can come to God in prayer and confess and repent of our sins and we are forgiven. Our sins are erased!
The habit of prayerful confession and repentance should be practiced daily. There are times that we sin and because our hearts are naturally carnal, we may overlook the sin especially if it is a character trait or habit we need to overcome from our former, unconverted lives.
The second most misunderstood concept is faith. Faith is simply believing in God without questions or doubts. We were created with a measure of faith. Let’s compare our gift of faith to a mustard seed. Through consistent faith and trust in God [even in situations that appear impossible], we believe in God’s Sovereign power to resolve every challenge in our lives.
“Behold, I am the LORD, the God of all flesh. Is there anything too hard for Me?” —Jeremiah 32:27
Taking our eyes off of the situation and placing them on God’s ability allows our faith to grow abundantly. Imagine your faith growing from a tiny mustard seed to the size of an avocado seed. Yet, the growth of our faith and trust in God has no limits. If we only memorize one Scripture, it should be Jeremiah 32, verse 27.
Our Spiritual Journey Involves Daily Spiritual Change and Growth
Reflection: We can come to Jesus just as we are, but we cannot stay as we are. Tell yourself, “My present character is unacceptable to God.”
Sanctification is the spiritual transformation of our mind, character, and personality into the likeness of Christ’s Character which is necessary to receive eternal life. We cannot change ourselves. In humility and surrender, we acknowledge our sinful traits and habits, repent, cease the sinful behaviors, and ask the Holy Spirit to change us and guard us from succumbing to temptation. Never forget, that it takes an entire lifetime to become like Christ.
We can do our part in experiencing spiritual transformation because God has gifted us with innate gifts: “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind [self-discipline and self-control]” (2 Timothy 1:7).
The core value of loving the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind is the catalyst to daily spiritual growth and transformation.
“And being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself and became obedient to the point of death, even the death of the cross.” —Philippians 2:8
The willingness to surrender every day to the will of God and the commitment to serving Him with love, faith, obedience, and loyalty is God’s expectation of every believer. God required the same righteous characteristics from Jesus in His earthly life. Before Jesus was born as a human, His mind was one with God. Jesus commanded angel armies who obeyed His directives. Still, God His Father required that Jesus learn obedience.
Spiritual Growth in Marriage
How does our individual walk with Christ and Sanctification apply to a marriage? Although in marriage, two become one, salvation is still one-to-one with Christ. God intended for the husband and wife to spiritually support and help each other to live righteously and prepare for eternal life.
Yet, the willingness to surrender, reverence, and worship God in Spirit and Truth through faithful obedience is an individual choice. Having a first love for Christ is from a responsive heart filled with love for God. Husbands and wives will be judged separately by God. They should not attempt to persuade one another to love and serve God. “For in the resurrection they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are like angels of God in heaven” (Matthew 22:30).
Satan knows his time is short on this earth. He is using any means necessary to separate us from God. Now he is targeting single Christians by presenting people who believe in God but are not dedicated to serving God. Many believers are involved in unequally yoked relationships that eventually cause the believer to reach a crossroads in their relationship with Christ—will I choose Christ or the person I am in love with?
I read a post where a young woman shared a story about never letting another person change you according to their mindset. After dating for a few years, her significant other told her that he wanted to share some good news with her. Naturally, she assumed that he would ask her to marry him, which he did when they met over dinner. But she noticed there was no ring presented with the spoken desire for her to be his wife. Still, she loved him, so it didn’t matter. She was shocked by his next statement, “Before we get married, you need to give up your cats, I can’t imagine living with cats.” Fast forwarding to the end, she immediately broke off the relationship. The majority of women responding to her post disagreed with her decision. Yet, the spiritual issue is deeper than putting one’s pets over a significant other. This was a long-term relationship. His masquerade of pretense equates to deception. His attempt to manipulate her response by presenting the proposal with an ultimatum revealed his true nature of a selfish heart and a corrupt character.
Practical Living Guidelines
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths. Do not be wise in your own eyes…” —Proverbs 3:5-7
Remember, only God knows the true condition of a person’s heart, desires, and innermost thoughts. Living in these perilous times and last days requires Divine Intervention. Believers face many obstacles in their earthly journey. When we love God, we will pray and wait before we decide to accept people as friends into our lives. It is a daily struggle to stay on the straight and narrow Path of Righteousness. Why enter into relationships with those who are stumbling blocks and do not love and put God first?
The healthiest relationships are a result of men and women of God who have a genuine love for God and others. We must possess loving and forgiving hearts, share Biblical views, morals, and values, and strive to put God first. Whether we have similar likes and dislikes, no person can ever be a carbon copy of someone else. We differ in our strengths, weaknesses, personality, habits, and perception of life in general. Our uniqueness is God-given. No two people can ever develop, mature, dream, or think alike because we were created as free moral agents. Let the Holy Spirit guide you.
Each believer’s spiritual journey differs–several factors impact our spiritual growth and development. Do we love God and put Him first? Is Jesus our LORD and Savior? Are we faithful? Have we consecrated ourselves to God? Do we seek God’s will every day through prayer? Are we diligent Bible students?
Based on our faith, love, and loyalty, we trust God due to our knowledge of the Scriptures and our desire to accept God’s will. We have Divine help [24/7] from the Holy Spirit who empowers us to live righteously, avoid mistakes, and experience spiritual growth. Obedience takes our relationship with Christ to the highest level. The Holy Spirit guides us to let go of unholy character traits which are a sum total of our hereditary tendencies and life experiences. Our new character reflects Christ and we begin to possess the Fruit of the Spirit [Galatians 5:22-23].
From our willingness to go all the way with Christ, we receive evidence of daily transformation: We value our times of personal worship. We have inner peace. We gain spiritual insight which results in a change of our perception of God. Our lifestyle choices reflect obedience to God. And we begin to recognize the Holy Spirit speaking to us through our thoughts and the Scriptures. Most importantly, we seek the will of God before making life decisions.
Spiritual growth and transformation are an exciting part of our spiritual journey. Yet, it takes courage! We cannot expect our family and friends to understand our walk with Christ. As we grow deeper in our relationship with Christ, we will lose some friends, family, and sometimes a spouse who will not embrace our journey. Persevere anyway, there is a crown and robe and an abundant eternal life waiting for us. King Jesus is coming soon. Amen!
Scripture Reading: “And behold, I am coming quickly, and My reward is with Me, to give to every one according to his work. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End, the First and the Last. Blessed are those who do His commandments, that they may have the right to the tree of life, and may enter through the gates into the city. Revelation 22:12-14
Prayer: God, we pray for strength and guidance from the Holy Spirit to accept our Higher Calling and to stay on the Path of Righteousness. We ask this prayer in faith. In Jesus’ Holy Name, Amen.
Facing Internal and External Opposition? God Always Wins! Devotional Reading August 31, 2023
Who can control the internal battle of a sinful heart or win the external battles of strife without praying for Divine power?
Living in perilous times [2 Timothy 3] has led many believers to become distracted. We are trying to fight battles—internal and external that originate from spiritual warfare [that we cannot possibly win] without God. Human wisdom and strategies are extremely limited in fighting against the temptations and deceptions of Satan—never forget that he is a fallen angel.
Jesus’ Human Status on Earth: “You made him a little lower than the angels…” —Hebrews 2:7-8
Jesus, the Commander of Angel Armies and the Son of God was born as a human baby and was required to be tempted and suffer just like us. God also required Jesus to learn obedience to human parents and earthly laws. For Jesus to live and think as a human being, He had to give up part of His Omnipotence—Divine Power while living on this earth.
“For we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin.” —Hebrews 4:15
When Jesus was in heaven, His mind and will were connected and in perfect harmony with God, His Father. Once He was born as a human, Jesus had to pray constantly to seek the will of God. Obedience to God was His highest priority! Humanity always requires an Intercessor! The Holy Spirit also interceded for Jesus when He was living on this earth.
Yes, Jesus was human and divine, but in humility and surrender, He accepted and acknowledged the limitations of becoming a human being—to be tempted along with struggle to obey the will of God. Constantly seeking His Father in prayer empowered Jesus to live in total obedience to God. Even at the time of His betrayal in the Garden of Gethsemane, Jesus gave reverence to God, His Father.
“Are you not aware that I can call on My Father, and He will at once put at My disposal more than twelve legions of angels? But how then would the Scriptures be fulfilled that say it must happen this way?” —Matthew 26:53-54, NIV
If Jesus the Son of God openly acknowledged that He always needed to call on His Father [in His earthly life] how much more do we need God in every aspect of our lives? Throughout the Gospels [Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John] we have Scriptural proof that Jesus was in constant communication with God, His Father.
“It was at this time that He went off to the mountain to pray, and He spent the whole night in prayer to God.” —Luke 6:12
The Apostle Paul describes Jesus’ prayer life: “During the days of Jesus’ life on earth, he offered up prayers and petitions with fervent cries and tears to the one who could save him from death, and he was heard because of his reverent submission. Though He was a Son, yet, He learned obedience by the things which He suffered.” — Hebrews 5:7-8, NIV, NKJV
From Jesus, we have a Role Model who demonstrates how we must place our faith and trust in God, the Father. It is a privilege to have unlimited access to God the Father through praying.
“Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.” —Hebrews 4:16
We are told to come boldly before the throne of grace in prayer. Prayer is so important to the believer’s life that the Holy Spirit intercedes by taking our prayer of misguided words and presenting them to Christ, our Heavenly Intercessor with reverence and deeper meaning.
Spiritual warfare will exist until Jesus’ Second Coming. Yes, we face temptations, but Satan is using two methods to attack our relationship with God.
Doubt: The method he used with Eve to create doubt in her mind is the same method he is using with us. Satan desires that we believe God is withholding the best from us. Without faithfully trusting in God, we will pursue our desires for success, wealth, and marriage and never pray for God’s guidance or blessings.
Division and Strife: He uses people [most often spouses, family members, friends, dating partners, and coworkers] to draw us into debates that result in division and strife. Yet, Satan has increased his game of warfare by luring many into the web of debating the Scriptures on social media.
We live in the time of a Spiritual War Zone and our minds are the battlefield! Those who fulfill the carnal desires of their hearts do not love God with all of their hearts, souls, and minds. They would rather compromise and accept Satan’s poor choices of people and tangible wealth [which always produce consequences] rather than wait for God’s perfect blessings.
The people in our lives who cause strife and incite our emotions of anger are being used by Satan. A believer who insists on having relationships with unbelievers [“Not everyone who says, Lord, Lord will enter in…” Matthew 7:21] whether they are husbands, wives, family, friends, or dating partners, sadly will lose their relationship with Christ. The believer is always the one who compromises!
Without praying for guidance from the Holy Spirit, we chase our carnal desires, make the wrong decisions, and do not have the power to control our emotions, and spoken words. A believer with a sinful spirit of disobedience or strife is in a lose-lose situation. Their focus is no longer on God, it is on self.
The Solution: In Ephesians chapter 6, we are told to put on the Whole Armor of God. We are defeated unless we stay in the presence of God through prayer and study of the Scriptures. To combat spiritual warfare, we must pray and rely on the Holy Spirit. When we surrender and ask for the Divine Strength of the Holy Spirit, we receive the wisdom and power to overcome all situations.
Praying throughout our waking hours is the key to victory. Talk to God. Not only does our relationship with Christ strengthen, but we begin to view life through spiritual eyes. Prayer enables us to receive wisdom and the Fruit of self-control. The Holy Spirit empowers us to place God’s will over our heart’s desires and amid strife either we remain silent or quote the Scriptures and walk away.
The impossible remains impossible without God. We must double or triple our prayers and begin searching, studying, and obeying the Scriptures. The spiritual battles we face can only be won when we put forth the human effort of faith, surrender, and obedience to God. We prepare ourselves to receive strength from the Holy Spirit through prayer indicating our desire for Divine Help.
God always requires us to surrender and obey first before He intervenes. When we fulfill our responsibilities to God then our Mighty Warrior God will demonstrate His Divine power and defeat every enemy we face, even our internal battles with the enemy of our carnal hearts!
Scripture Reading: 2 Chronicles 14
Prayer: “Lord, it is nothing for You to help, whether with many or with those who have no power; help us, O LORD our God, for we rest on You, and in Your name, we go against this multitude. O LORD, You are our God; do not let man prevail against You!” (2 Chronicles 14:11). Lord God, in faith, we pray the prayer of King Asa and we pray for deliverance from Satan and our earthly enemies. And we also ask for spiritual discernment and the power to fight our carnal desires. Thank You for the victory over our enemies. In Jesus’ Mighty name, we pray. Amen and Amen!
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