Refuse to Riot, Chapter 4

The 1967 Newark riots were one of 159 race riots that swept cities in the United States during the “Long Hot Summer of 1967”. This riot occurred in Newark, New Jersey, between July 12 and July 17, 1967. Over the four days of rioting, looting, and property destruction, 26 people died, and hundreds were injured. Wikipedia

When the Newark riots occurred, I was eight years old, living in Newark, NJ. The majority of the rioting and looting occurred in downtown Newark with minimal damage to the uptown area where we lived. Even so, the images seared in my memory are larger than life, green army tanks that rolled up and down our streets to maintain safety and enforce the daily curfew of 5 pm, and the devastating effects of torched buildings.

On the day, my father decided to take our family to downtown Newark to look at the charred ashes that represented once-thriving businesses. The Iron gates that represented safety and used to prevent entry through the windows and doors were not impenetrable. With the broken locks intentionally left on the ground, and the gates torn from their tracks, one could easily peer inside the empty stores, only the remnants of shelves and shattered glass remained from the torched buildings. Amidst all of the destruction, one business stood alone untouched, and that was William S. Rich & Son located in the heart of downtown Newark.

Mr. Rich was a philanthropist of Jewish descent, a social activist, and a fair man with an unusually kind heart. The pawnshop that he started to help those in need does not reflect the modern pawnshops of today. Wm S. Rich & Son was the cornerstone of the community and thrived because of short-term loans given to struggling individuals who needed to feed their families or pay their rent. Mr. Rich’s philosophy was that most people had run out of options forcing them to pawn their most valuable items, and he was fully aware that human beings work hard to regain the things we value.

Yes, he was much more than a successful entrepreneur, Mr. Rich cared for and gave back to the individuals that depended on him. And our family can attest to the kindness of this man who impacted the lives of many. After 35 years, our father retired from Wm S. Rich & Son, and we were also the benefactors of his generosity.

As I think about the reasons that my father took our family to view the destruction, I realize that my Dad wanted us to see the atrocious results from the anger and rage that already lives inside each of us. My father refused to accept the looting and burning down of businesses as a method of retaliation. I can still recall his words, “It was wrong to burn down these businesses. Doing wrong can never produce what is right.” It is hard to believe, 53 years later, that across our nation, many are involved in the same self-destructive behaviors using social injustice as leverage to substantiate their wrongdoing.

To the families of those who have lost loved ones due to brutality, and drive-by shootings, human trafficking, and other unconscionable acts of murder, we grieve from the depths of our souls. We are sorry for your loss, and we pray for God to comfort you.

And we pray for the innocent victims living in the cities that are torn apart by racism and the destruction of looting and rioting, who lost their only source of income and can no longer support their neighborhood businesses because they no longer exist. Never underestimate your child’s negative experiences because I can relate to the overwhelming sadness and despair that they feel. The ravages of war leave behind the brutal images and the violence incite fear and insecurities that one will never know unless they have experienced the consequences of the war of humans against humans.

Our emotional responses always lead to unacceptable solutions!

My beloved brothers, understand this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger, for man’s anger does not bring about the righteousness that God desires. James 1:20

How well do you rate in the areas of self-control and discipline? Although the environment in which we grew up shaped who we are because we adopted our parent’s or caregiver’s morals and values, we need to evaluate and discard what is not conducive to our spiritual growth.

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things, there is no law. Galatians 5:22-23

To evaluate oneself requires eating a massive slice of humble pie. For those who desire spiritual, mental, and emotional growth, introspection is the first step. If we fail to identify our shortcomings, then we build a roadblock to learning and growing into the best that we can become in our lifetime.

“The human heart is the most deceitful of all things, and desperately wicked. Who really knows how bad it is?” Jeremiah 17:9 NLT

Have you ever witnessed “baby rivalry?” Two babies are sitting on the floor playing with their toys, inevitably one looks over and decides he or she wants the other baby’s toy, and the spat begins. Learned behavior is rarely the basis for a child so young to make a concerted effort to crawl and snatch the toy away from the other baby who is perfectly content.

The concept that human beings naturally possess traits that reflect godly love and virtuous characters is far from the truth. It is not an automatic response to think and act appropriately and with restraint. We struggle every day to choose right over wrong. The trait of self-control takes a lifetime to achieve. We fight the ongoing battle to suppress our immediate reactions to adversity and develop the habit of using logical and sound reasoning in response to every situation.

All of us possess an internal riot: Self-control has an enemy, and that is our emotions. Anger, rage, and hatred are the precursors that propel us into a mode of self-destruction. When we continue to feed these nonproductive emotions, they develop into enemies that attack from within and enable us to commit dangerous and heinous acts. Problems never can and never will be resolved from the use of our emotions.

Remember that it takes the right situation to reveal a person’s real character.

Based on life experience, all of us have an individualized breaking point. Have you ever been falsely accused? It is a terrible feeling to know that you are innocent, but cannot prove that you are not guilty. One of the first steps to identifying your strengths and weaknesses is to reflect on your response to the accusation.

What about injustice? I can recall standing in line at the store, and the four individuals ahead of me paid for their purchases with debit cards, and when it was my turn, I was asked for my driver’s license to verify the name on my card. As I felt the anger well up, I handed her my license and joked about the change in my hair color since the driver’s license picture was taken.

Anger is a normal response when we have suffered from discrimination, biases, and diabolical plots. However, we must stand-down our rage and not let our thoughts evolve into wrongful words and actions. Once the seed of bitterness is within us, it is impossible to stop the growth until anger becomes rage, and feeling disgruntled flourishes into hatred. Whether it is silent or aloud, say a prayer, and remain calm.

As it is written: “None is righteous, no, not one;” Romans 3:10. We are not in the position to judge others; we fight the internal riot of good versus evil every day of our lives. Over-confidence says, “No, I would never do that,” and with that mindset, we place ourselves into the dangerous area of self-reliance. Satan is always ready to tempt and present the perfect situation to make us fall, often into doing the exact things that we said that we would never do. For I do not understand my own actions. For I do not do what I want, but I do the very thing I hate. Romans 7:15

Our Heavenly Father knows our limitations and our failures, and He is always here to forgive us, to help us, and to comfort us. As Believers, we will face a more significant battle than social injustices, or the glass ceiling, or any of the atrocities from the “isms.” For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Ephesians 6:12

Lest we forget, within three days, 5/31-6/2, the COVID-19 is showing signs of resurgence in the United States with an increase of 40,967 cases and 1,457 deaths. Our heartfelt prayers extend to over 6,000,000 infected individuals and the families of 375,000 individuals who passed away from this vicious disease.

When we place ourselves in God’s hands, He silences the Internal Riot. We do not react. We interact through prayer with the Almighty, who tells us to, “Be still and stay calm,” I am here to rescue you. But Moses told the people, “Don’t be afraid. Just stand still and watch the Lord rescue you today. The Egyptians you see today will never be seen again. The Lord himself will fight for you. Just stay calm.” Exodus 14:13-14

Bible Reading: Exodus 14

God, we desperately need your help. With disease, death, and destruction, our world is so out of control. We make the decision today to place our lives within your hands. We ask this prayer in the Worthy Name of your Son, Jesus. Amen.

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Young Love

Today, I took a drive to our local park which only had a few people who were practicing social distancing. I chose to stay in my vehicle with the controls set to recirculate the air inside of my truck. As I looked around to capture a shot of the wildlife, I caught a special moment of two young people who were walking slowly and holding hands. It was definitely a priceless moment as the young girl began to run circles slowly around the love of her life, smiling and laughing. When she paused for a breath, I was allowed the perfect distance photo without being too intrusive.

The LORD appeared to us in the past, saying: “I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness. Jeremiah 31:3

Despite the chaos, violence, sickness, and death throughout our world, God still wants us to be aware that He has us in His hands, and love will always exist.

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Please Rescue Us God

Please rescue us God cause we don’t know how much more we can take

You said that we are your image and that means the way we look is not a mistake

With dirt in your hands, you shaped us and made us human

Please rescue us God cause we don’t know how much more we can take

We took your perfect plan, and we messed it up with hate and

We didn’t realize that when we hate the creation, we also hate the Creator

Please rescue us God cause we just went too far this time and we don’t know our way back

Troubles have us so angry and confused we are forgetting that your Son is coming for us

Please rescue us, God, we are losing hope, and we don’t know how much more we can take.

“I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth, you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world.” John 16:33

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Watch “King of Glory (Medley) | Brooklyn Tabernacle Choir ft Charity Gayle” on YouTube

Amazing choir that represents the way we will live in the New Heaven and New Earth. Really looking forward to no more isms, violence, riots, diseases, or evil. There will be overflowing love, peace, and joy. We must do our part by maintaining love, peace, and harmony with all individuals. Prepare now for Eternal life, a life that our Savior, Jesus Christ is preparing for us. Sonya Johnson Ruiz

Downtime is Beneficial

Leave all your worries with him, because he cares for you. 1 Peter 5:7

Knowing that every week, I have 24 hours to shut out the chaos and confusion of our present environment keeps me grounded and focused on the goodness of God. Like me, there are thousands of individuals who observe the 7th day Sabbath from Friday sunset to Saturday sunset that is mentioned in Exodus 20:8-11.

There are many benefits to putting aside all secular activities for 24 hours, to give 1/7th of our busy lives to focus on God, enjoy physical rest, and relaxation. Personally, I look forward to the weekly 7th-day spiritual sabbatical that lifts my spirits and enables me to have a stronger relationship with God. Since one 24-hr day is devoted to cease all activities that are not spiritual, it keeps me on a procrastination-free schedule during the other six days.

Friday is the day we utilize to complete the outstanding activities of the week, to cook our meals for two days, clean, and prepare for the incoming day of rest. When I was employed, part of my preparation was completed on Thursday night. Once I made the decision to commit to Sabbath-keeping, my physical and mental strength increased. Because preparation for the Day of Rest requires a systematic approach for completion of the to-do lists prior to sunset, I developed organizational habits that were beneficial to an enhanced way of life.

Often the question arises, “How do you know that you are honoring the Sabbath as God requires?” Think about a trip to a Christian Spa, which provides a quiet and serene environment with lots of amazing scenery. It is the participant’s decision to create a personalized atmosphere with soothing and uplifting music, non-secular materials, no interruptions from ringing phones, and numerous text messages. Forget the electronic tech addiction, and enjoy your pre-prepared healthy food, and the opportunity to get plenty of sleep. Basically, a restful day of relaxation with prayer, praise, singing, studying the Word of God, reading, and lots of joyful laughter.

Nature plays a vital role in keeping our focus on God and His awesome love. Research to discover lakes and other scenic places that are not frequented by mass crowds. Take the time to walk or hike, hear the melodious songs of the birds and breathe in the fresh, unpolluted air. There are still many places that provide a time to reflect on God and the beauty that still exists. The earth is the Lord’s and everything in it. The world and all its people belong to him. Psalm 24:1

I am not promoting a religious denomination, that is undoubtedly a personal choice. I am merely pointing out that God knew the damage that the hardships of life would cause to our spiritual, emotional, mental, and physical bodies. It is His wonderful gift to give us a day that will rejuvenate, refresh, and restore our minds and bodies–and all we have to do is cease our ordinary activities for 24 hours.

Nike had a slogan to “Just do it!” I can promise you that there are many benefits to keeping the 7th day Sabbath. It has enhanced my relationship with God, my medical diagnoses have stabilized due to no stress, the aging process of my body has decreased (still no wrinkles), and my mood is consistent. Most of my life, insomnia wreaked havoc, leaving me weary every day. Since dutiful Sabbath-keeping, I am enjoying a peaceful REM sleep.

All in my life is not perfect; even so, when troublesome times come, I remind myself that I belong to God. As I release my burdens through prayer and study, I have stopped resolving challenges based on my experience. If the God who created me also rested on the Sabbath; And by the seventh day, God had finished the work He had been doing, so on that day, He rested from all His work. Then God blessed the seventh day and sanctified it because on that day, He rested from all the work of creation that He had accomplished. Genesis 2:2-3; then, I believe that He knows what is best for my well-being.

Make the change, it is a win-win situation, and incorporate the Sabbath into your life. God’s plan for our lives always ends in victory.

Please note that this Devotional is a reprint that has been edited to remove my practice of attendance in the church due to the COVID-19 pandemic.

Prayer for today: God, I desire the lifestyle that you developed for me. Please give me the courage to remember the 7th day Sabbath, and make the decision to just do it and make a positive change in my life. In Jesus’ name, I pray. Amen!

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The Plan to Restructure

For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, to give you a future and a hope. Then you will call upon Me and come and pray to Me, and I will listen to you.… Jeremiah 29:11-12

As I read the headlines regarding the filing of bankruptcy by J.C. Penney, once a retail giant, I felt a wave of sadness. After all, this business opened it’s doors in 1902 and has withstood the ups and downs of many economic recessions, including the Great Depression. In addition to shopping at their stores, generations of families can remember browsing their giant catalog, placing orders, and waiting in line to pick up their purchase.

But as I read further, I realized that they were not throwing in the towel and giving up. Despite the changes in consumer purchasing, and the presence of the pandemic, one of the cornerstone’s of retail has developed a viable plan to restructure. 118 years of resiliency has enabled J.C. Penney to identify and close 242 stores that are no longer profitable. The shareholders and executive management have identified their target customers and will use marketing strategies to stay afloat for many years to come.

Amid the pandemic, we have not only experienced a significant threat to our health, but we are also in an economic recession. The necessary changes have sparked many negative emotional responses, which have led to an increase in anger and hopelessness. Dreams and short-term goals have been placed on hold without an end date, which leads to further frustration. Too many challenges in such a short timespan have led to internal and external crises, when will it end?

As of now, we have no answers as to when our pandemic will end. Even so, we can take steps to restructure our lives. Commit to at least one hour per day for devoting time to God, the Bible is encouraging and gives us real-life accounts of the struggles of humanity. Pray several times a day, ask God for guidance, and the determination to make the necessary adjustments to maintain a productive lifestyle.

  1. Identify your most important priorities.
  2. Eliminate unnecessary spending, including the closure of credit card accounts.
  3. Return to the basics of cooking tasty, nutritious meals.
  4. Incorporate family time where everyone can share their day, make suggestions for family activities, learn how to budget, and participate in the household tasks.
  5. Explore opportunities to develop new skills and/or hobbies.
  6. Call the local churches and non-profit organizations who help those in need to donate items and non-perishable food.
  7. If you are in need, seek help from your local churches/organizations, call 211, contact your creditors to make payment arrangements.

Positive changes are required to keep moving forward. God knows our concerns and limitations:  Jesus looked at them intently and said, “Humanly speaking, it is impossible. But with God everything is possible.” Matthew 19:26

Remember, God is BIGGER than all of our problems. Stay Aware and Stay Safe!

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Making New Accomplishments

Imagine starting a new career in an entry-level position. In five months, the employer’s expectation would be for you to have learned the necessary foundational skills to perform your job at a satisfactory level. Most of us have sustained significant changes this year that may have impacted our motivation and drive to move forward.

When is the last time that you set a goal, worked diligently, and now can enjoy the fruit of your labor? Grab your journal and find a serene place where you can spend some time alone. Free your mind and think about a plan for self-growth and development. Identify your interests and research online for purchasing low-cost items that facilitate hands-on creativity.

Our lives must be well-rounded, or else we will succumb to the hardships of our environment. Now is the best time to discover and develop your talents or to complete unfinished tasks. Begin with simple, realistic hobbies that can be achieved in two weeks or less, then progress to more complex projects as your skill level increases.

Last year, I attempted to grow flowers from seeds and failed. By my failure, I learned a valuable lesson, to let nature take its course. Do not give seedlings plant food! The sunlight and good potting soil are enough to propel the growth process. So, with that in mind, I ventured outside of my heart-wrenching experience and recently purchased a packet of marigold seeds. Since our weather is unpredictable, I decided to use a grow light and keep the seedlings indoors until our stormy season with strong gusts is over.

The seeds that fell among thorns stands for those who hear, but as they go on their way they are choked by life’s worries, riches, and pleasures, and they do not mature. 15 But the seed on good soil stands for those with a noble and good heart, who hear the word, retain it, and by persevering produce a crop. Luke 8:14-15

Witnessing the seeds grow reminds me of the spiritual growth and peace of mind that we can achieve when we study the Word of God and pray for change. The most significant accomplishment that we can make in our lives is to serve God. Faith, trust, patience, and obedience are the characteristics that propel us into the spiritual growth cycle.

Always make God first! Focus on the Giver, and He will give you the ability to discover your natural gifts and talents, and regain your motivation to keep moving forward.

Bible Reading: Philippians 4

God, we have sustained many changes this year. We pray for you to give us peace and the desire to move forward. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.  –SJR

 

The Middle of the Road

On May 25th, the city of Dallas, Tx, reached a milestone; for the first time since the pandemic, there were no deaths due to the Coronavirus. Considering that the Dallas-Fort Worth-Arlington metropolitan area’s 2019 population was 7,573,136, this is a significant accomplishment.

But, before one has the opportunity to get excited, there is the tiny print that many fail to read that discloses the rest of the story. Reading further into the reports, it is noted that these statistics are only the cases that have required hospitalization. The total case count of 8,998 with 211 deaths does not include individuals who tested positive for the Coronavirus, were treated and released to self-quarantine, or passed away while quarantined at home.

The second area that was kept hush-hush is that two-thirds of the cases have been individuals under the age of 65 and without high-risk chronic health conditions. So, 6,002 people who were considered medically healthy still required inpatient hospitalization for the evaluation and treatment of the Coronavirus.

We must ask ourselves when we hear or read the statistics for the cities we reside in; where is the rest of the story? Who would think that the numbers in Dallas would only reflect cases that required admission to the hospital? Is the current trend nationwide for only inpatient hospitalizations to be counted and reported to the American people? Then we are not being told the whole truth, and the decision to publish to the general public only hospitalized cases and deaths was an intentional act, which may explain why many have not taken the COVID-19 virus seriously and continue to place emphasis on the economy.

We have been placed on a need-to-know basis. The statistics are misleading and have led many astray with the false belief that it is the senior population that ranks first in Total Cases and Total Deaths. This concept is not a current trend because of the pandemic. Historically, adversity exposes the natural tendency for people to become hysterical and overreact; as a result, vital knowledge is withheld. Who would think that the hoarding of toilet tissue would be the response to a virus that attacks the Respiratory system?

We are kept in the dark unless a whistle-blower with an intact conscience steps forward and reveals the truth! The result of disclosure is the retaliation of their employers and the anger of the public who really did not want to know the rest of the story.

You were running the race so well. Who has held you back from following the truth? It certainly isn’t God, for he is the one who called you to freedom. Galatians 5:7-8

Walking down the middle of the road is known as “Compromise.” We play a dangerous game of chance when we are comfortable with only knowing part of the truth. No two comfort zones are alike. We build our custom-made zones based on the decision not to go above and beyond. The presenting obstacles that require new thinking or actions, we tend to ignore and are perfectly happy, only knowing just enough information.

And yes, the whole truth brings discomfort in our lives. The desire to know the entire story takes strength and continuous perseverance. At times, you feel powerless and weak from the ongoing struggle of right vs. wrong, and truth vs. error. Even so, seeking the truth empowers us by tearing down the walls of fear, disbelief, and indifference. The choice to possess knowledge of the rest of the story gives us the freedom to make informed and wise decisions regarding every aspect of our lives.

So I say, let the Holy Spirit guide your lives. Then you won’t be doing what your sinful nature craves. 17 The sinful nature wants to do evil, which is just the opposite of what the Spirit wants. And the Spirit gives us desires that are the opposite of what the sinful nature desires. These two forces are constantly fighting each other, so you are not free to carry out your good intentions. Galatians 5:16-17

We have the need to know the complete truth about every threat to our lives. Thankfully, God has not withheld any knowledge from us; the Bible contains the rest of the story, His Son Jesus Christ is coming again. With God’s guidance, we no longer have to compromise by walking down the middle of the road. He provides all that we need to know to continue our walk on the straight and narrow Path of Righteousness.

Bible Reading: Galatians 5

Prayer: God, we thank you for giving us the complete truth regarding what our part is in the Plan of Salvation. We pray for the strength to seek knowledge and ask you to provide us with the wisdom to stay away from the middle of the road. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.

© Sonya Johnson Ruiz 2020, No part of this publication may be reproduced or transmitted for commercial purposes without the written permission of the author.

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