Measuring Our Love

Can you imagine being in love, yet the person who says they love you opposes your morals and values and constantly disagrees with you? We would agree that the individual is not in love with you.

“If you keep My commandments, you will abide in My love, just as I have kept My Father’s commandments and abide in His love. You are My friends if you do whatever I command you.” (John 15:10, 14)

Many who claim to love Christ are in opposition to His commands found in the Scriptures. Serving God requires total surrender–we give all or we do not have a relationship with Jesus. Our half-hearted commitment is counted as nothing.

Obedience to Christ is the standard by which He measures our love for Him.

I can recall my dear friend Susan [who is resting in the grave until Jesus comes] saying, “When you understand what being in love with Jesus is, you pray for guidance regarding every decision and wait for the Holy Spirit’s answer.”

“Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. Point out anything in me that offends you, and lead me along the path of everlasting life.” (Psalm 139:23-24).

Pray and ask God to reveal every desire in your heart that prevents your obedience to Him. What things in your life do not reflect total surrender and obedience to Christ?

Prayer: God, we pray for forgiveness for doing things our way. Please anoint us with Your Holy Spirit that our hearts may align will Your perfect will. We ask for wisdom and discernment. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.

Why Doesn’t God Keep Us From Falling Into Sin As He Promised?

God’s Promise: “Now all glory to God, who is able to keep you from falling away and will bring you with great joy into his glorious presence without a single fault.” Jude 1:24 NLT

God created us with the free will of choice. Adam and Eve were given the command, “And the Lord God commanded the man, saying, of every tree of the garden you may freely eat, but of the tree of the knowledge of Good and Evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat of it you shall surely die.” (Genesis 3 16).

“The heart is deceitful above all things and desperately wicked; who can know it?” Jeremiah 17:9. We disagree with God regarding the condition of our hearts [our minds]. When was the last time you admitted that your heart was wicked? Maybe never. Christians have the tendency to blame falling into sin on Satan. Yet, we willingly fall into temptation by following the sinful desires of our hearts and disobeying God.

God’s Warning: “For we do not wrestle [fight] against flesh and blood but against principalities against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the Heavenly places.” (Ephesians 6:12)

Satan is not Omniscient [All-knowing], but He and his evil angels observe our behaviors. Many children and teenagers are involved in deviant behaviors because their parents or caregivers do not pay attention to their activities or the people they interact with. The worldly conversations, the programs with sex and profanity, and the immodest clothing are easily seen by the evil one.

God’s Promise: “No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful, He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear.” (1 Corinthians 10:13)

Memory: I can recall overhearing my coworkers having a conversation about going to a restaurant with a separate bar for an after-work drink on Friday to relax and start the weekend off right. About 30 minutes later, they sent over a shy and passive co-worker who knew that I was a Christian but said to me, “Oh, we’re going on Friday to a restaurant after work just to get together.” I responded with a smile, “No, thank you.”

The consequence of declining their offer was isolation. No more greetings of good morning, random chit chats, or eating lunch together. Yet, God provided. A male coworker said to me, “Sonya, I know what happened and if you need assistance, just ask me. He always said, Good Morning.” The walk with Christ always causes separation from unbelievers. Yet, obedience has its rewards–peace, joy, and the assurance of eternal life.

God’s Promise: “For the Lord your God is the one who goes with you to fight for you against your enemies to give you Victory.” (Deuteronomy 20:4)

Our Responsibility: Even when Satan attempts to use people who appear non-threatening to tempt us, we have immediate access to the Holy Spirit by praying a silent prayer for guidance. Yes, we can always walk away from temptation and pray for the Holy Spirit to anoint us, who gives us wisdom and spiritual discernment.

Human effort plus Divine Intervention equals Victory!

Our Responsibility: We acknowledge that we are always responsible for falling into temptation and committing grievous sins against God. Practice telling others, “No, thank you.” Remember, God can never fail! Jesus paid the price through His death to protect us from the traps of temptation and redeem us from the end that sin promises.

Prayer: God, we thank you for the spiritual protection you have blessed us with. Help us to rely on the Holy Spirit and our sound minds to resist and say no to Satan’s snares of temptation. We ask this prayer in the Worthy Name of Jesus. Amen.

The Domino Effect of Brokenness On Our Relationship with Christ

There is a significant difference between physical healing and emotional healing. With proper care, a broken bone will heal in 6-20 weeks or more if in-depth physical trauma is involved. Even so, the body initiates the healing process immediately from physical injuries.

Emotional neglect or trauma can occur in childhood or as an adult from various situations. The absence of love always produces a broken child or adult. And sadly, the mind does not have the capability of healing itself without Divine intervention. Even if the individual appears to be okay, triggers will cause the brokenness to surface.

Therapeutic intervention from Psychiatrists, Psychologists, Therapists, Behavioral Health specialists, and Addiction Counselors can only teach behavior modification, coping mechanisms, and prescribing medications for their clients.

After working as a Registered Nurse in Behavioral/Mental Health for 20 years, I do not speak against therapeutic intervention. Yet, only Jesus Christ, the Creator of the human mind, can provide complete healing and restoration.

Without Divine healing, we continue to mistreat ourselves and others and make decisions that negatively affect our lives. In 2022, Christian believers face three issues: (1) The inability to love. (2) Uncontrolled emotional responses–insecurity, loneliness, fear, anxiety, depression, overly needy, and sadness. (3) Staying in unhealthy relationships–either toxic, abusive, dependent, or with someone for years who is unable to love, provide financially, or remains emotionally distant.

How many women are waiting to become a wife to a man who says, “It isn’t the right time?” And countless married women and men readily express their loneliness on social media platforms.

Do you want to be healed?

Why is it imperative that we go to God for help? God, who is love, created us in love and defines a healthy emotional state of mind in 1 Corinthians chapter 13. The root of all emotional issues is having the wrong perception of love. It could be a familial trait that indicates learned behavior [lack of affection and positive reinforcement]. Or abject abuse and neglect produced an unloved child who matures into an adult who is broken.

Why is it necessary to speak about emotional brokenness?

“Jesus replied, ‘You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind.'” (Matthew 22:37 NLT)

Whether we have a deficit or the people we are involved with, emotional health impacts one’s spiritual relationship with Jesus Christ. Emotionally unhealthy people cannot have productive relationships, not even with God! Brokenness prevents us from understanding that God is love! We will view God as a punitive Judge instead of a loving, Heavenly Father. It takes God to break the cycle! We have to make a free will choice to pray and ask for God’s help to become whole.

Throughout His short life on earth, Jesus Christ focused on faith-based healing.

“That evening they brought to him many who were oppressed by demons, and he cast out the spirits with a word and healed all who were sick.” (Matthew 8:16)

“And Jesus went throughout all the cities and villages, teaching in their synagogues and proclaiming the gospel of the kingdom and healing every disease and every affliction.” (Matthew 9:35)

The question that Jesus asked the crippled man at the pool of Bethesda was, “Do you want to be healed?” is the same question He is asking the emotionally broken in 2022.

Prayer: Jesus, we pray in faith asking for Your healing touch and anointing of our minds to rid us of all emotional brokenness. Thank You for hearing and answering our prayer that we ask in Your name. Amen.

What is Worship?

Worship is our response of love to the love and greatness of God, our Heavenly Father.

Worship extends beyond praise, singing, praying, studying the Bible, and attending church. To truly magnify our Lord and Savior can only happen from the depths of a loving and dedicated heart.

We make worship a priority because God deserves our best. We worship God when we put Him first!

Worship is the surrender and dedication of our lives to God, our Creator! Our bodies are fearfully and wonderfully made in the image of God. We are a temple in which the Holy Spirit lives.

Worship God in faith and with total obedience. Give God honor because of His goodness, glory, and authority in our lives. To God be the glory!

Prayer: God, we face many distractions. Please help us to redirect our focus and attention to You. We love You. Thank You for never-ending love, grace, and mercies. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.